Friday, May 25, 2012

I Suck At Wedding Anniversaries

Today is my wedding anniversary. Too bad I suck at wedding anniversaries. It was nine years ago today that I duped Karen into marrying me. And still, the joke is on her.

In the past, when we were young and wild whippersnappers, we used to celebrate our anniversary by exchanging presents based on the traditional anniversary gift list. Sadly we stopped that practice as those traditional gifts became increasingly difficult to plan around, like iron for the sixth anniversary. As much as I enjoy a little ferrous, I can't for the life of me imagine wanting anything made of iron. (Bueller... Bueller... Bueller...)

Needless to say, we ditched that idea. For the past few years, however, Karen and I have been dining out at the same restaurant on our anniversary. That restaurant: the Square Cafe, located in Hingham. A few years ago, my favorite sister-in-law's BFF (Gretchen) had recommended the place to us when we were deciding on where to go out for dinner on our anniversary. Always up for something new, we gave the restaurant a try and we've gone back ever since on our anniversary. (Thanks Gretchen!) We enjoy the food that much.

This year, however, there was a slight twist with our anniversary as we decided to bring our children with us for dinner. In years past, Karen and I had offers from family to watch our kids while we celebrated our anniversary. For our ninth anniversary, no one outside of my friend (Andrea) offered to watch our kids. (Thanks Andrea!) And as much as we appreciated Andrea's offer, we felt bad sticking her with a two year old and a two month old. So the kids came with us to dinner, which is always a daunting task because it could either go very well... or very badly.

Luckily for us, today our two year old (Briana) was very good. In fact, I would say that Briana enjoyed the food at the Square Cafe too because she ate practically everything on her plate. In case anyone is curious, I had the ribeye steak with jumbo shrimp and scallion mashed potatoes and asparagus. Yum! I had no problem being part of the clean plate club today.

Karen and I actually did something we hardly ever do when we dine out. We ordered an appetizer and a dessert. Generally, if we are to order something besides our main dish, it is usually appetizer or dessert, hardly ever both. But since the food was so good, we had to indulge. We had the crispy hot and sour calamari (made with grapefruits and mango) and the strawberry rhubarb crisp. It was so good.

Needless to say, it was a delightful dinner. I enjoyed it immensely. And as a side note, we ran into one of the librarians from our library. She was out walking her dog when we ran into her. It was good to see her... and her huge labrador retriever, Jasper.

All in all, it was a good anniversary. I can't believe it has been nine years.

Wednesday, May 23, 2012

I Suck At 7-Eleven

Oh thank heaven! I suck at 7-Eleven.

The most memorable part of today, aside from hearing that my two month old daughter (Bridget) pooped all over Karen, is getting a slurpee at 7-Eleven. Today, 7-Eleven was offering a free 7.11 oz. slurpee to patrons to ring in the flavors of summer.

I haven't had a slurpee in some time. In fact, the last time I had one was probably when 7-Eleven gave away a free slurpee two years ago. (I think I missed the free slurpee offer last year.) Needless to say, the slurpee was great! For anyone curious, I had the new Slurpee Lite Fanta Sugar-free mango with 50% fewer calories. Of course I had to try that particular flavor. It was new, it was mango flavored, and it was good!

Anyway, the free slurpee was a nice treat to have after dinner. Thank you 7-Eleven! You made my day.

I Suck At Being A Library Trustee

Today, my reign of terror officially begins.

After being elected for the glamorous position of library trustee on Saturday, I stopped by the local town hall today to be sworn in. Now I suck at being a library trustee. Truth be told, I didn't even know I had to be sworn in because this entire political arena is all new to me. But I guess it makes sense that I would need to be sworn in. It is, after all, an elected position.

Anyway, the process to be sworn in did not take too long. I'll admit it. I almost flubbed the lines that I was to repeat during the process. Who knew there would be so many sentences to remember and repeat? But it's done. It's official. I'm a library trustee.

Interestingly enough, the next step in being an elected official is taking an ethics course online. I guess it is required by the Commonwealth of Massachusetts. I find that somewhat ironic considering that there have been some elected officials who recently have been anything but ethical. These officials include the likes of Charlie Flaherty, Tom Finneran, and Sal DiMasi to name a few. Heck, throw in Dianne Wilkerson's name. And politicians wonder why they get a bad reputation.

Politics aside, running for an elected position has definitely been an interesting experience thus far. Hopefully I can make a difference. That's all I want to do. Granted, I'm limited to making a difference only with the library, but it's a difference nonetheless. I wonder if this is how all politicians get their start. They have dreams and aspirations of making a difference, only to become jaded with the "machine".

I suppose the only other noteworthy event of today is that I filled up the gas tank of my car. It's noteworthy only because it has been over a month since I last filled up the gas tank. I was pretty excited when I realized that it has been a month and a week since that happened. I'm so glad I work so close to home. Take that big oil companies!

I Suck At Celebrating My Mother-In-Law's Birthday

This past Sunday, my family and I celebrated my mother-in-law's birthday. Too bad I suck at celebrating my mother-in-law's birthday. For the celebration, Karen's family took everyone out to Quan's Kitchen located in Hanover. Apparently, Chinese food has been a tradition when it comes to my mother-in-law's birthday celebration.

Joining in on the festivities were my favorite sister-in-law (Janine), my favorite niece (Kaleigh), and my favorite nephew (PJ). If it were a competition between son-in-laws, I scored some major son-in-law points on Sunday in part because PJ could not attend the celebration. I would say I'm up a few points by now. Just kidding.

Anyway, the food at Quan's Kitchen was quite delicious. I must say, the manager of the restaurant is very friendly. She came over to our table many times to ensure everything was good. Plus, I think she wanted to say hello to my two year old daughter (Briana). Incidentally, I think Briana likes the restaurant a lot.

I spent a good chunk of time at Quan's Kitchen walking around in circles up and down the aisle of tables with Briana. If she takes after Karen, she'll probably be a distance runner. Truth be told, I'm not sure how many laps I made around the tables. I lost count after 10.

Following the delicious lunch, everyone headed back to our place for dessert and presents. Turns out, my mother-in-law loves Martha Washington geraniums. Apparently, those geraniums are hard to find this season. Luckily, Karen was able to find one for her mother's birthday.

And what may be the most memorable part of the day for me is the look of joy my mother-in-law had when she saw her "Nana" t-shirt. My mother-in-law wants to be known as Nana to my kids (and my niece and nephew). Her claim, however, is that there are not a lot of shirts that use the term "Nana". Luckily again, Karen was able to find a shirt that mentioned "Nana". (Karen is such a good daughter, right?)

Anyway, I say the Nana t-shirt was the most memorable part of the day because I don't think I have ever heard my mother-in-law shriek with joy. If only I had recorded my mother-in-law's reaction... if only.

All in all, I think my mother-in-law had a great birthday celebration.

Sunday, May 20, 2012

I Suck At The Avengers

Avengers assemble!

Today has been quite the busy day. After all, today is election day for the town of Norwell. The biggest item on the ballot, other than my name... and my ego, is the budget override. For anyone curious, in Massachusetts, a statute known as Proposition 2.5 (two and a half) was passed in 1982. The statute gets its name from the maximum percentage that a municipality is allowed to increase its annual taxes by. Thus, a municipality cannot increase its annual taxes by more than 2.5 percent. And naturally, there is a way to circumvent that statute. That method: an override, which allows the town to increase the percentage over 2.5%.

For those who are interested, the override did end up passing. More taxes = fun! And as a side note, I apparently did win for my bid to be a library trustee. Go me. So in terms of the library, I guess the override will help make my elected position a little easier. Although truth be told, the library is like the Rodney Dangerfield of Norwell. It gets no respect as evident from the fact that it is the only department that had its budget slashed away at by the Selectmen. No other department had that done. I'm guessing none of the three Selectmen use the public library. Hopefully the newly elected Selectmen will.

Anyway, voting aside, my parents sprang a little surprise on me today. Calling me bright and early in the morning, my parents invited my family to dim sum. My relatives have been visiting for the week. As it was their last day here, they wanted to go out for some dim sum. And like I enjoy saying: you win some, you dim sum. Or maybe it's: you dim sum, you lose some? Eh, whatever.

As the dutiful son, I naturally had to go. And nothing is more relaxing than getting a two year old daughter and a two month old daughter ready to go at the spur of the moment. Fun fun. We ended up eating dim sum at the Grand Chinatown located in Quincy. The food was good. I enjoyed it a lot better than the China Pearl, but I may be biased only because my two year old daughter (Briana) had her 100 day party there. Don't ask. The worst part was finding parking there. Who knew it would be so busy there on a Saturday?

When dim sum was over and my duty was fulfilled, I headed back home only to spend what seemed like hours mowing the lawn. Luckily for me, my friend (Marc) came just at the right time. Incidentally, my friend (Christine) also had stopped by a few minutes before Marc. I didn't get to chat much with Christine, but she was coming from some party somewhere nearby and decided to drop off some Tupperware. I didn't get the full scoop. I'm sure Karen would know better than me.

Marc and I, however, had plans for the night. Those plans: the Avengers. Now, I suck at the Avengers. Okay, so maybe not really. It was definitely fun hanging out with just Marc tonight. It was like a geekfest, considering the fact that we both enjoy comic books and things of that nature.

For me, it was also the first time I got to watch any movie in 3D. And no, I don't consider the Hannah Montana concert that I watched in 3D a movie. And yes, I watched the Hannah Montana concert because my niece (Kaleigh) wanted to watch it. (Sure, I did.) I must say, IMax 3D is pretty neat.

Needless to say, the movie was awesome. Of course, how could it not be? Joss Whedon of Buffy the Vampire Slayer fame directed the movie and wrote the screenplay. He can't do any wrong... even if he created Dollhouse. Plus, it's the Avengers! Earth's mightiest heroes!

All in all, it was a good busy day. I definitely had a blast eating at Bertucci's for dinner again for the second straight day and watching the Avengers with Marc. The geekfest was a nice way to end the night.

Saturday, May 19, 2012

I Suck At Bertucci's

Yesterday was day two with Solar City. Thursday was the home energy audit. Yesterday was the engineering audit to inspect our roof to calculate possible placement of the panels. Unlike the previous day, yesterday's audit only took the regular three hours.

Sadly, things don't look too good on the solar front. The engineers do not seem to think that we would get as much sun exposure as they originally thought, which is a bummer. Hopefully, things will work out though. I may have to pray to the sun god, Ra. Ra is a merciful all loving god... especially if you need a tan.

Anyway, as Karen was exhausted, I decided to take the family to Bertucci's located in Hingham. Now, I suck at Bertucci's. I actually have not been there in some time. The idea of dining out at Bertucci's came about because I received a coupon from them via email yesterday. And they say email marketing doesn't work...

Luckily for me, when Karen is exhausted she can't really think straight when it comes to what she want to eat. So off to Bertucci's we went. And rather than eat at Bertucci's, we took our pizza to go... to the back of the Derby Shoppes.

Located at the back of the Derby Shoppes in Hingham (past the Apple store) is a little area for bocci. Not only that, there is a garden used by b.Good. For anyone curious, b.Good is growing mint for medicinal purposes of course. Aside from the bocci and the garden, there is actually a nice little place to sit covered by an umbrella.

So that is where we had our dinner. We ordered the Eggplant Napoleone and the Stella pizza. Both were very delicious. I've missed going to Bertucci's. Had my friend (Hot Amy) been there, I'm sure she would have enjoyed the meal too. After all, Hot Amy is a fan of the eggplant. If eggplant had a Facebook page, I'm sure she would "like" it.

Anyway, it was good to eat at Bertucci's. The food was definitely delicious.

I Suck At Community

This past Thursday, Karen, my two year old daughter (Briana), my two month old (Bridget), and I went to my friend's (Andrea). After all, Thursday is must see tv night and the tv that we must see is Community. Too bad I suck at Community.

Truth be told, we almost did not make our weekly get together with Andrea and my friends (Marc and Kelley). We were running a little late due to a home energy audit conducted by our friends at Solar City. I felt somewhat bad for the Solar City person because he apparently was at our house for about six hours. Apparently, he was shorthanded. Thus, what normally is about a three hour job took twice as long.

Luckily, I was able to give the guy a hand when I got home from work. I had to tape our air registers shut. I never realized how many vents we had... until I started taping them shut. But, it was all worth it. I got all psyched up because I got to see the part of the audit where the big fan is attached to the door. Yep, it's the little things.

Anyway, because of the audit, we ran a little late to Andrea's who was hosting for the week. And I must say... Community was hilarious. Well, if you are geek like myself... the first of the three episodes that aired on Thursday was awesome. The episode involved video games. Hence, geek.

Needless to say, it was a good night. We got to see Andrea's new shelves in her closet. It almost made me want to start my home improvement projects again, but we'll see how that goes. One of the things that I want to do more of is use my time more wisely. And there's nothing more wiser that I can think of than sitting at a computer blogging. Just kidding.

For me, I seem to lose a lot of time. I have no idea where it goes. I work. I come home. I eat. I take care of my kids. Before I know it, it's time for bed. Repeat cycle. Rather than fall into that vicious cycle where nothing productive gets done, I want to start budgeting time differently. But like I said, we'll see how that goes.

Monday, May 14, 2012

I Suck At Mother's Day

Happy mother's day! Or if you happen to have a Y chromosome, I hope whatever present you picked up yesterday was worth it. Just kidding. I can joke about that because I, like many of my fellow brethren, are clueless when it comes to getting gifts. So yes, I suck at Mother's Day.

As a side note, Anna Jarvis who is credited with the founding of Mother's Day in the United States in 1908, opposed the commercialization of the day. She apparently was quoted saying that she regretted starting the day. Go Anna, I'm with you! Just kidding... sort of. I do find the whole commercialization of the day a little bit too much.

Anyway, like any guy for Mother's day, I spent the day... shopping. Okay, so maybe I was with Karen when I was shopping. And truth be told, we actually weren't shopping for Mother's Day. We were shopping for double strollers. Fun, I know.

With both of our mothers out of town, we decided to spend some quality family time by going shopping. Since we did not own a double stroller, Karen wanted to have one in place before she started back at her place of employment next week. Her reasoning was to allow the grandparents, who watch over our kids while we work, the chance to take both of them out for a walk at the same time.

Personally, I didn't feel the need for a double stroller, which may be the guy in me talking. But since it was Mother's Day, I wasn't going to argue. So double stroller it was.

After making a brief pit stop at the Babies 'R Us in Braintree, to make sure the double stroller would even fit in our car, we headed up north... to live free or die territory (New Hampshire). For anyone curious, Babies 'R Us did not have the stroller available to purchase. We had to make sure the floor model fit into our car. And when it did, we decided... heck... let's make a day of it and go north, particularly because Karen also was craving Ruby Tuesday.

I must agree with Karen, there needs to be a Ruby Tuesday closer to us. I had the Zucchini Cake Mini. It was delicious! The salad bar was also good too!

All in all, it turned out to be a fun day. The most memorable part for me, aside from Karen going to the Apple Store to play with an iPad, was assembling the newly purchased stroller outside the Sears the parking lot because it provided shade from the hot sun. If people could see us, which I'm sure they did, they must have thought we were nuts. Fun times. Fun times.

I Suck At Girls Night Out

Yesterday was a nice day.

I spent the late morning talking about solar energy, which for an enviro-nut like myself, was actually fun. I probably should clarify that. I really didn't do much talking about it. It was more like listening to a presentation about solar energy.

From the very beginning of my home ownership, I have always wanted to have solar panels on my house. Neighbors be damned! Just kidding. Going solar, especially the notion of being "off the grid", was always very intriguing. Unfortunately, going solar was always an expensive option that my measly income could never afford. The panels themselves were just too darn expensive to purchase outright.

Needless to say, thanks to my friends (Garv and Leeann), I learned about Solar City, which is a company that leases the panels to you. Not only do they lease the panels, they take care of everything solar panel-related. And heck, Google is one of their clients. If it's good enough for Google, it's good enough for me. Just kidding.

Anyway, it seems like solar panels will be in my foreseeable future. Yay solar! (And thanks Garv and Leeann.) Now if I can only figure out how to get a windmill on my postage stamp-sized property, that would be also cool too.

So how does one top off a day like that? Well, if you are me, you get to spend quality time with two members of the opposite sex. Hubba hubba. Unfortunately, those two members happen to be my two year old daughter (Briana) and my two month old daughter (Bridget). Yep, I got parenting duty Saturday night. It turns out, Karen had a planned girls night out. And since I suck at girls night out, I was more than happy to watch over my kids.

The night actually went by very quickly. After giving my kids each a bath, I was surprised by a spontaneous visit from my favorite sister-in-law (Janine) and her family. They happened to be in the neighborhood after eating out at the Tinker's Son located in Norwell. (Shake fist for making my starving family wait over an hour without any explanation!)

It was definitely a nice surprise, and one that apparently made the night go by quickly. All in all, it was a very good day.

I Suck At Quan's Kitchen

Last Sunday, the highlight of the day was going to Quan's Kitchen located in Hanover. It's sad how the highlights of my day now revolve around going out to eat. I guess that's why I have the body shape that I do. Well, that and the fact that I am terrible with portion control.

Regardless, I suck at Quan's Kitchen. Quan's Kitchen was definitely a nice way to end Sunday. I spent the day with my family. More specifically, I spent the time entertaining my two year old daughter (Briana), who has now become a fan of digging dirt after her and I got rid of the weeds in one of our vegetable gardens. So most of the time now, I hear "Daddy outside", which inevitably leads to her sitting in her chair digging dirt by the vegetable garden.

Anyway, Karen had been craving Chinese food. So we decided to go to Quan's. Like the first and only other time that we went, the food was delicious. My mom's ears are probably twitching now because I wrote about a Chinese food restaurant being delicious. My mother cringes every time I tell her that I go out to eat at a Chinese restaurant. She has this thing where she likes to tell me that she can make whatever food I order at a Chinese restaurant taste better and be more healthier. And by healthier, she means less grease. Interestingly enough, my mother is right. Of course, I could be biased because I grew up eating her food.

I Suck At First Communion

I'm afraid I'm falling miserably behind with my postings. Seems like raising a two year old and two month old are harder than I thought. Just kidding.

Anyway, last Saturday was my niece's (Kaleigh) first communion. Yes, that is how far behind I am with my postings. I suck at first communion. It's not just because I still have original sin, which I do. I suck at first communion because I actually did not attend the service for Kaleigh. I undertook the parenting duties that Saturday so that Karen could attend.

Regardless, this year was a two-for-one deal. Not only did Kaleigh have a first communion party, she also had a birthday party as well. Luckily for me, I was able to attend the party following the church service.

The party was fun. Not only did I get to see my favorite sister-in-law (Janine) and her family, I got to see my mother-in-law, father-in-law, the Lowell contingent (Aunt Denise, Uncle Paul, Karlene, and Tommy), Karen's grandmother, Karen's Aunt Margie, and PJ's family. There were definitely a lot of people there on Saturday, that's for sure.

I remember thinking on Saturday night that I was going to write entirely about Tommy for this post, despite the whole "Jesus Saves" slogan concocted by PJ for banks to use. Tommy had mentioned how he only reads my blog to see his name. I thought that was kind of comical because I don't even read my blog and I'm in it. So in honor of Tommy, I wanted to put his name in. Here it is: Tommy, Tommy, Tommy, Tommy, Tommy, Tommy, Tommy, Tommy, Tommy, Tommy, Tommy, Tommy, Tommy.

Kidding aside, the two-fer party was fun. It was good to see everyone, albeit briefly. I think I spent more time watching my two year old daughter (Briana) go up and down the slide an endless number of times than actually socialize, but it was fun.

Tuesday, May 8, 2012

I Suck At Stars

This past Thursday was must see TV. Instead of Cosby or Seinfeld, Community is the show of choice. It was actually our planned get together with my friends (Marc, Kelley, and Andrea). The plan was to convene at Andrea's for the night.

Karen and I, however, were actually running a little late for the shindig. We had taken a little detour to eat at Stars in Hingham. Now I suck at Stars. Not really. I love their food. I had the Blackened Bison burger. Yum!

Some day, I would love to try their food challenge known as the Challenger. I had inquired about the Challenger while I was there. Our friendly waitperson told us that they added more food to it (like the milk shake) because a fair amount of people were completing the original challenge of the two pound burger. Some day...

Anyway, the reason why we even ended up at Stars was because our two month old (Bridget) had a scheduled doctor's appointment late in the evening. So rather than trek on home to prepare dinner only to trek back out, we decided to just go out for dinner prior to heading over to chez Andrea.

As usual, seeing everyone on Thursday was fun. Sadly, I can't remember much from Thursday other than Andrea being forever 32. For anyone curious, she's not. All in all though, it was a fun night.

Monday, May 7, 2012

I Suck At Green Earth Fest

Okay, so I have been a running a little behind in my postings.

Last Sunday, Karen and I decided to take the family out for breakfast. The destination: the Brant Rock Hop located in Marshfield. Now, we've only been to the Brant Rock Hop one time prior to Sunday. The first time was a result of curiosity after reading about the place in the magazine, South Shore Living. Since we enjoyed it the last time, we figured we would try it again, particularly since Karen has been craving their milk shakes.

Compared to the Tinker's Son experience the day before, the Brant Rock Hop was much better by leaps and bounds. The hostess at the Brant Rock Hop informed us that in addition to the wait for getting a table, there would be a wait for the actual food because something happened in the kitchen. I must say... Kudos to the Brant Rock for setting expectations with the customer! And truth be told, the length of time that Karen and I had to wait for a table and for our food was far less than what was originally told us. So yay Brant Rock.

In addition to the set expectations, the food at the Brant Rock was quite delicious. Karen and I had our shake. Surprisingly to both Karen and I, our two year old daughter (Briana) was not so much into the shake. And for anyone curious, I ordered the "Delightfully Delicious", which was quite... delicious.

Anyway, after the great breakfast, we decided to continue family day by going to the Green Earth Fest. Now, I suck at Green Earth Fest. The Green Earth Fest is an annual event held at the South Shore Natural Science Center in Norwell. Interestingly enough, based on the name one would think that the event would be held on Earth Day, which was the week before. This was the first time that I have been, so I don't exactly know how many years the event has been going on for.

All in all, it was a fun event. For an eco-nut, like myself, I thoroughly enjoyed it. There were exhibits and workshops about gardening, woodworking, and whatnot. There were crafts for the kids. There was music. Heck, there were even animals at the event beside the ones found in the South Shore Natural Science Center (like the owl and the iguana). I think Briana enjoyed the cow the most. By the way, a cow... is huge.

Needless to say, it was a great Sunday. I got to spend some quality time with my family. I've been feeling a little guilt-ridden lately, in part because Briana keeps asking "Daddy home?" before she goes to bed at night. I used to see Briana more often when I worked from home. With my new job and its long hours, I don't get to see her as much as I would like. Hence, the guilt. Of course, my two year old could be just playing me too so that she can get what she wants. We'll see...